Its amazing subhanAllah, how fast life moves, some would say “duh! thats a given”, but I don’t think one realises how fast it does move and how quickly things change until you’re in the midst of it all.
The past few months especially the past 3, have taught that when things don’t move they just don’t and when Allah 
decides the time is right for you to get it moving, boy do you get movin’ !
Alhumdulillah getting married was maybe the catapult for it all, in three months so much has happened. Marriage, Hajj, Travelling and Moving to the middle east! Looking back at the months prior to that, and at the comfort of what life was, the everyday routine rota of things, it brings one to realise the true essence of this life, any moment any one of us could have the dust of the earth kicked in our faces (death), then what utter chaos and turmoil will we be thrown in if we haven’t prepared?
The true reality of emaan, and the value of it is only shown to those of us sat in our comfortable lives, when shown what life is like out of this comfort, how used to we are to the people around us, to the area, to the stores, to the masjids to the ready available knowledge. How we take for granted all that our forefathers have set up for us, the quaint little muslim community hubs where all is readily available, yet forgetting how they set these hubs up. They weren’t set up seeking comfort or an easy life (though an easier life for their progeny would be a by product not the aim), they set these hubs up with eman, for Allah , to protect the deen of their beloved children and children to come, yet it seems now that it is the by product (that of comfort) which is the aim and no longer the true goal of preserving emaan, and excelling in the eyes of Allah .
How attached we have become to the comfort to the dunya (world) and all that is in it, ask me, there is nothing more of a reality shock at how we collate things in this world than trying to emigrate with only bare essentials, how suddenly everything becomes an essential, how we attach our hearts to the items of this world when we all know most definitely we will soon enough be leaving it all behind on a permanent basis.
Though a lesson to be learnt which indeed I have many a time over the past learnt, and a lesson the many founders of our muslim communities here in England have tried to pass on to us, is have tawakkul (trust) in Allah , He is the provider, He will give, all we need in the end is our eman, and all else will come to be as destined until the one day when we all stand in front of him with nothing but our book of deeds.
May Allah enable us to leave the love for the dunya from our hearts, may He fill it with love of Him and His Rasool.
May He increase us in emaan and the knowledge of how we may please Him, and enable us to act upon it.
Ma’assalam
